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Keevan_Colton wrote:
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Un-Circed and fucking glad. And furthermore, how could anyone NOT!!! want more pleasure?
If I offered you a drug that would give you Ultimate Pleasure by reducing you to a vegetable would you take it?
How fucking stupid are you Mark?

If someone offered you a pill that would forever reduce the amount of pleasure you were capable of feeling would you take it?
Thats more apt for this you dipshit.
Excuse me
how could anyone NOT!!! want more pleasure?
I would ask you to Read then respond
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oh since you guys have done some research, can circumsicions go really wrong and inflict additional scarring along the length of a penis? What other childhood sources of such scarrage are there?
Unfortunately, it's not hard to find.


http://www.circumstitions.com/Botched.html
http://www.circumstitions.com/Botch-refs.html

You want a real kick in the teeth? My FATHER is uncut. It wasn't even for the reason to make me similar. When I asked him why, he more or less said he didn't know. It ended up somehow happening without much of a discussion. See back then it was common to just get the mother to sign for it, sometimes shortly after they had labour and were doped up on drugs for that matter.

In any event he said it wasn't his choice and he wouldn't have endorsed it. It might have had to do with the male not being as involved in the birth in the past as nowadays.
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MarkIX wrote:
Keevan_Colton wrote:
MarkIX wrote: If I offered you a drug that would give you Ultimate Pleasure by reducing you to a vegetable would you take it?
How fucking stupid are you Mark?

If someone offered you a pill that would forever reduce the amount of pleasure you were capable of feeling would you take it?
Thats more apt for this you dipshit.
Excuse me
how could anyone NOT!!! want more pleasure?
I would ask you to Read then respond
I see we're taking everything literally today.
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I am uncircumcised, and I must tell you, ITS FUCKING WONDERFULL. I have heard my friends talk about using everything from lotion to shampoo to get off, but the foreskin does all that and more :D
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I am uncircumcised, and I must tell you, ITS FUCKING WONDERFULL. I have heard my friends talk about using everything from lotion to shampoo to get off, but the foreskin does all that and more
Thanks for rubbing that in. :twisted:
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There's no good reason (barring special medical circumstances) for the decision of circumcision to be made for someone else while they're too young to make an educated decision on it. If they really want to be circumcised they can give it time and make that decision for themselves on their own time.

I'm glad I'm uncut, and I think circumcision during infancy for anything other than valid medical reasoning is simply barbaric.
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Justforfun000 wrote: Unfortunately, it's not hard to find.


http://www.circumstitions.com/Botched.html
http://www.circumstitions.com/Botch-refs.html

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In any event he said it wasn't his choice and he wouldn't have endorsed it. It might have had to do with the male not being as involved in the birth in the past as nowadays.
Ugh. Um, thanks :shock:

I think there's a consensus here, that noone has a reason that this sort of thing should be done without the childs consent, and that it's nothing more than a stupid tradition.

Guys. Don't go to that site hey. Its not good.
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Metrion Cascade wrote: And Broomstick - good points overall. But FGM and MGM are both unethical for the same reason if not to the same extent. It's like the difference between stealing $1000 and stealing someone's Dodge. They're not equally wrong, but both violate a person's right to security of property. And someone saying MGM is okay because FGM is worse is using a false dilemma fallacy
Huh. That's not where I was trying to go at all. I'd say circumcism and FGM, particuarly in the more extreme forms, are NOT comparable. After all, a man with a standard circumcism is able to achieve orgasm, reproduce, and urinate without difficulty or additional procedures. A woman with an infibulation is subject to repeated infections of the the genitourinary area. Her ability to piss is severely hampered. Clotting of menstrual blood may block the opening entirely, leading to a build up of necrotizing tissue and blood which, you can imagine, is no good at all for the woman. With no clitoris and extensive damage to other structures in the region she is extremely unlikely to experience sex as pleasurable, and may find it painful. She is not able to reproduce without assistance and further cutting. These are common effects of infibulation.

So, while I will agree that circumcism is multilation, at least in the sense of bodily alteration without consent, the effects of a typical circucism are far, far less disabling than FGM. For that reason, I don't think they are comparable. It's like equating losing the tip of your pinkie finger with losing your entire arm. Yes, both are amputations, but in day-to-day life one really is a minor defect (and may pose no difficulty at all) and the other is a severely crippling defect.
Another false dilemma I hear alot on the RIC issue. People say that getting it done as a baby is better than getting it done as an adult.
And that I can't quite fathom - why anyone would think this is less painful for an infant than for an adult I can't imagine. The main difference is that the infant can't articulate his complaint.

I definitely would put up a fuss to prevent this being done to any child under my care (should that ever happen). As I said, I can tolerate a world in which this continues for religious reasons - but only because there are much worse injustices in the world that need attending to, and the impairment of life quality isn't horrific. When we've eliminated problems that leave people truly disabled, hungry, ill, abused, or needlessly dead I'll start campaigning to make circumcism completely illegal.

Or, to return to my earlier analogy - in an ideal world everyone's arms and fingers would be intact. However, we don't live in an ideal world. I realize that to some people - a professional piano player, perhaps - losing even a portion of a single finger can be a major life trauma, but for most it's an annoyance and disfigurement, but not something that will leave them crippled. Likewise, circumcism is repugnant (except for medical reasons) and may be a major trauma for some, but for most men who have had this done it's not disabling, pre-occupying, or probably even something they think much about. Would it be better for all foreskins and pinkie fingers to be intact? Yes. But it's not an issue I lay awake nights agonizing about.
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Stark wrote:I'm cut; and it's shit me for as long as I've understood what happened, which is almost twenty years now. I rememeber bringing it up, and asking my parents why they thought they had the right to cut a bit of my cock off, and you know what? It was for 'health reasons'. Non-specific ones. Oh, and my dad being cut had nothing to do with it, I bet.
Same as me. Damn, I fucking hated my mother. And she was like "why are you upset?" What do you mean why the fuck am I upset? You cut me! As a baby! Goddamn it. Anyhow Stark I know how you feel.
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I've been pissed about this too for awhile. I feel for you brothers.

I mean, come on, if they cut off some flesh for some other reason, like pulling out my toe nails as a baby, there'd be fucking horror.
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To those who support circumcision, perhaps you should take a pair of pliers and yank out your childrens' baby teeth when they come in. Sure, there will be a lot of screaming and suffering and pain and blood, but the kid won't remember it as an adult, and he'll get new teeth anyway. Right?
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I think a good action to suggest to them would be more using nail clippers to remove the lobes from the ear.....after all "it's just some skin"....it would also make it easied to keep behind your ears clean.... :wink:
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Darth Wong wrote:So yes, you did claim to know how much loss there is, because you insisted that it is "so minor". How would you know how "minor" it is if you don't know its magnitude, dumb-fuck?
Nice fucking twisting of my words you dishonest cocksucking scumbag. Learn to fucking read the discussions at hand:
Keevan_Colton wrote: Also, how to you work out how much sensitivity you've lost?
You dont know what it would have been like with an intact foreskin, so how can you know that the loss is minimal...really, you are a product of a stupid society.
Notice how Keevan was claiming I somehow knew how much SENSITIVITY is lost? Notice how he is claiming that I "know that the loss is minimal"? No, you obviously didnt see that you ignorant shit, otherwise you would have seen that my responce, (which you took completely out of context) is responding to HIS fallacious claims about me and that NO WHERE IN ANY OF MY FUCKING POSTS IN THIS THREAD HAVE I CLAIMED TO "KNOW HOW MUCH SENSITIVITY IS LOST".
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Icehawk, are you really that fucking retarded....look here at what you wrote dipshit
A fucking moron, that doesnt think cutting bits off kids is mutilation wrote:Im just saying that the word "damage" doesnt seem to be a very accurate term for something so minor. Its "damage" but its not real damage.
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Stofsk wrote:
Stark wrote:I'm cut; and it's shit me for as long as I've understood what happened, which is almost twenty years now. I rememeber bringing it up, and asking my parents why they thought they had the right to cut a bit of my cock off, and you know what? It was for 'health reasons'. Non-specific ones. Oh, and my dad being cut had nothing to do with it, I bet.
Same as me. Damn, I fucking hated my mother. And she was like "why are you upset?" What do you mean why the fuck am I upset? You cut me! As a baby! Goddamn it. Anyhow Stark I know how you feel.
The part that shat me the most was that they didn't actually seem to understand either why they did it, or why I was upset. They honestly couldn't explain why; they just repeated some crap they'd heard somewhere, then everyone'd nod and that'd be it. Further, when I pointed out that now I don't have all of my cock they sorta look at me and asked 'whats the problem?'. WTF? How can people not understand that it's wrong to go surgically modifying people? ESPECIALLY since my parents are against sex-choosing, genetically modified foods, body art, the who shebang. And you know what?

I think they don't know, and that they're ashamed. They just signed on the bottom line, and didn't think about it. Everyone else was doing it. So it was like some kind of parenting fashion. Wildly successful; only one of my friends has his foreskin. Ours ended up in sausages or cat food.
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I feel like starting a goddamn support group or something. Grrr.

Is this the sorta stuff thats in those 'Good Parenting' books? My friend has heaps because of his daughter, and they don't have anything about crazy shit like this, they're about looking after your baby.
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Keevan_Colton wrote:Icehawk, are you really that fucking retarded....look here at what you wrote dipshit
A fucking moron, that doesnt think cutting bits off kids is mutilation wrote:Im just saying that the word "damage" doesnt seem to be a very accurate term for something so minor. Its "damage" but its not real damage.
Oh look its the ignorant fallacy spewing asshole again. If you honestly think that a circumcision constitutes a "real", as in serious amount of physical damage to the body, then I have nothing more to say to you. Im looking at my cock right this fucking instant, and I SEE NO FUCKING SIGNS OF REAL DAMAGE ANYWHERE.
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Icehawk wrote: Oh look its the ignorant fallacy spewing asshole again. If you honestly think that a circumcision constitutes a "real", as in serious amount of physical damage to the body, then I have nothing more to say to you. Im looking at my cock right this fucking instant, and I SEE NO FUCKING SIGNS OF REAL DAMAGE ANYWHERE.
Yep, you are as fucking dumb as a box of rocks.

It isnt real damage to you because you're brought up with that as being "normal" you stupid fuck.

Unfortunately, outside that assanine moronic fucking bubble of reality that you are currently inhabiting, it IS mutilation plain and fucking simple.
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Before anyone else responds to me, I would just like to reiterate what I said in my first post. I DO NOT, REPEAT, DO NOT SUPPORT MALE OR FEMALE CIRCUMCISION. I DO NOT THINK IT SHOULD BE PERFORMED ON ANYONE.

Im just saying to keep things in perspective and that I just find it to be a "black/white fallacy" to just up and lump male circumcision in with other serious physical damage to the body just because the definition of the word "damage" barely manages to apply to it. As I said, it is "damage" but its not real damage that, in the grand scheme of things is worth making such a fuss over. Whats been done to you is done to you. Im not saying it was right, just saying its really not worth crying over.
It isnt real damage to you because you're brought up with that as being "normal" you stupid fuck.
Wrong again asshat ratfucker, I knew from about 4 years of age what an uncircumsized dick was and that mine was changed at birth. But, did I ever really give a rats ass about it? NO, and I honestly feel sorry for those who are so seemingly insecure about themselves in that regard.
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You have yet to justify your subjective valuation of this damage as not being "real" despite several pointed criticisms on that matter from several people, asshat.
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Darth Wong wrote:You have yet to justify your subjective valuation of this damage as not being "real" despite several pointed criticisms on that matter from several people, asshat.
I feel I have justified my position enough in this thread thank you very much. It barely fits the definitions of mutilation and damage and you lose some sensitivity (how much sensitivity I cannot say and it would seem to vary from person to person). Because of this and the fact that when I actually look at a circumsized penis I cannot actually see any signs of serious damage, I feel that it is safe to say that it is in fact not a case of "real" as in serious damage to the body.
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Look dipshit, by the dictionary it is mutilation....that you dont consider the loss of foreskin damage is a piece of cultural brainwashing as I originally stated....you're just too stupid to realize that.
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Keevan_Colton wrote:Look dipshit, by the dictionary it is mutilation....that you dont consider the loss of foreskin damage is a piece of cultural brainwashing as I originally stated....you're just too stupid to realize that.
Strawman, I agreed that it is "mutilation" (The third definition under the word in dictionary.com most accurately supports it as I mentioned a few pages back). But in reality its just not real damage worth crying over when you compare it to other things. I simply cannot consider a less amount of skin and sexual sensitivity in my dick alone to be the result of a really damaging proceedure. As for your idiotic "cultural brainwashing" claim which I already addressed once, I already knew from 4 years of age that my dick had been changed at birth, but because nothing physically is "wrong" with it save for a less amount of skin and sensitivity, I simply cannot seriously care that it was "damaged" as you like to call it. It has nothing to do with being "brainwashed" or told that its normal.

Just for reference, Dictionary.com states that "Damage" is Harm or injury to property or a person, resulting in loss of value or the impairment of usefulness. Since a circumsized penis loses no value and nor does it have any "impaired usefullness" the word "damage" is in fact a shaky if not innaccurate word to use when referring to circumcision.
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So what the fuck do you define the loss of sensitivity and function (the protective function of the foreskin for starters before you ask what you've lost) you're the one with the stupid black/white mentality going on....it has to be over a certain threshold before its "real" damage or it's simply "not worth crying over".... :roll:
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Keevan_Colton wrote:So what the fuck do you define the loss of sensitivity and function (the protective function of the foreskin for starters before you ask what you've lost) you're the one with the stupid black/white mentality going on....it has to be over a certain threshold before its "real" damage or it's simply "not worth crying over".... :roll:
Loss of sensitivity is not covered under the definition of damage and as for that "function", I havent ever heard of anyone suffering from a lack of foreskin "protection" so it doesnt even seem like a factor worth considering. If you can post sources that show a majority of circumsized males have actually suffered as a result of that lack of "protection" then I could agree with you.
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