So assuming that Falcon 9 is of no greater complexity than piece of disposable ammunition I can throw over my head, mass production cannot conceivably even halve costs.
This. Can you please explain what kind of broken logic allows you to assume that the level of complexity of a Falcon 9 is comparable to a glorified firework (where it's "engine" is a fucking metal tube with solid rocket fuel and its "nozzle" is a fucking metal cylinder with a conic hole in it) that is not even sub-fucking-orbital?
Seems to me that this is another example of "Huh let's compare the ISS to CERN".
Scientific interest - Apologies, I meant manned space missions.
You are shifting the goal posts, this may cause others to call you bad names. Anyway, what I linked still applies

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this has some more links. Men can do better than machines at collecting data and stuff, and this is beyond any doubt. We didn't send men only because costs were too fucking high to do it without the US gov to pay the bills, not because an unmanned probe has better performance.
you still have to launch the fuel to the depot,
One rocket sends in LEO a big metal tank filled with fuel in the same orbit of the orbital tug. That's the "fuel depot". Just a glorified metal tank. The one with mating equipment, pumps and whatnot is the tug.
launch the fuel from the depot to the satellite or launch the satellite to the depot and back again.
There is no "launch", only stuff that goes from surface to orbit is "launched". Orbit-to-orbit movement is not called like that.
The tug docks with the depot and refuels itself (as it is cryogenic, the satellite's own maneuvering systems use another kind of fuel, more on that later), that then mates with the satellite (launched in the same LEO orbit as the propellant depot, so it's not hard to get there with minimal delta-v, and no, we can do that since Mercury missions and Shuttle did it every time with ISS so it's not hard).
Then does what it was supposed to do, brings the satellite to its orbit by burning fuel.
Then detaches the sat that will spring to life and start to do its job.
Now, lo and behold, it decelerates by
areobraking and manages to return to LEO without using a lot of fuel, where it is ready to do its job again.
In case it wanted to refill a satellite's own tanks, it's even easier, as now the payload is just the fuel tank and pumps for the satellite, which is going to be tiny compared to a full satellite, so fuel expenditure will be far less.
When it arrives to the sat it mates with it and pumps the fuel in its tanks, then detaches and aerobrakes to LEO again.
Such payload will likely piggy-back the ride with another bigger payload on a rocket inbound to LEO, so it won't cost a lot.
why not just fly unmanned rocket to an unmanned satellite and skip the (manned?!) depot station.
I never said it was manned. The tug is actually a mildly modified
Centaur upper stage. The Centaur is used as the last stage of a multistage rocket, the one responsible of placing stuff at the right orbit, it has automatic celestial navigation systems and is smart enough to do everything a tug needs to, the guidance from earth will come only during the close approaches and refuelling operations where men will tele-operate the beams and tooled arms. Rockets only carry stuff to LEO.
Space vs stopping Communism
This has nothing to do with Vietnam nor alleged moral reasons of saving people from evil Communists, let's not derail.
The space race was a pissing contest between USA and USSR. USSR started it by sending Sputnik and then the first man in space, then the first probes on the Moon and on Venus. It was not just a mere achievement of a nation, or of science, it was
a statement that the Communist way of life was inherently better than the US way of life.
Or the US read it as such. That's Cold War mentality, pretty sick shit.
The US had to prove that it was better than the Soviets.
So they decided to go to the Moon. The Soviets did fail by a few months, but were in the race as well. When the US planted the flag they scrapped the program and kept everything secret ("us? The moon? Nah, never ever thought about it"). Today it is no more, so we know what
Soviet Moon Missions were supposed to be.
It was a "virtual" war, they couldn't go to war with one another (nukes or not it would have been a suicide even if it wasn't completely idiotic from a logistics standpoint), so they resorted to these pissing contests (and all the smallish wars on border countries like Vietnam or Afghanistan, yes even back then that shithole was contested), and trying to develop even better weaponry than the other, in an escalating circle that eventually dealt a fuckton of damage to both anyway.