For a start no problem when I look back I have several posts all after each other when written anywayJustforfun000 wrote:Sorry for these separate posts, but I keep noticing parts of that long post that I had to address further.
Okay see now I will feel an idiot because now I am willing to discuss the issue, because here you have explained why I may be wrong, rather than make the general statement that they are the same. I'll agree with you definition of Rape.one somewhat nitpick in general. When you say you won't respond to anything comparing circumcision to sexual or physical abuse, you should realize that it IS comparable. In fact, it's BOTH.
Let me put a relatively loose analogy here:
You are physically forced to undergo painful sensations by another human being that is deliberately hurting your body against your wishes. You cannot stop them, and you have no say in what is happening. Once it's over you are left with the physical scars, (that usually completely heal), and the emotional ones that might never.
This is a fair description of rape.
You are physically forced to undergo painful sensations by another human being that is deliberately hurting your body against your wishes. You cannot stop them, and you have no say in what is happening. Once it's over you are left with the physical scars, (that NEVER heal as they are irreversible), and the emotional ones that probably exist on a very subconscious level, but as they happened at such an early age you cannot bring the memory of the event forward into your current consciousness.
I'm sorry, but I don't see how those very apt comparisons can be sloughed off as not fitting the definitions of sexual/physical abuse.
As to the issue of Male Circumsison in many places obviously yu are correct, it is an irreversable operation and obviously painful. The mental/emotional scars, I cannot say, and so will say that there is a fifty/fifty you are correct. actually you've given me a lot to think about, and if you don't mind I will need to think about this before I answer it fully, I am actually considering changing my view point on this issue based on your point here. things like this can take sometime with me.
As I said your point above has got me thinking... I will not be able to repond to this right now, Except that your reasons for why this has not been discussed in the past are spot on. That this needs to be discussed is obvious by the strength and depth of feelings here in this thread.But this is not truly comparable. Can't you see that?As I was saying so accepting a parents right to raise a child in a manor they see fit, barring Abuse, of somekind, and assuming that they recieve real emotional support, IE they are raised in a manner that will allow them to become functional members of society that will bring no harm onto others, and accepting that the issue of Male circumsicion falls into a grey area at worst, of morallity on a par with the spanking issue, then I can only say that it is the parents option to have their child circumsised or not.![]()
I know where you are coming from, really I do. The biggest difference here is that you just aren't giving enough consideration to how WRONG it is to permanently mutilate a human being for NO medical, practical reason.
The insidious thing about this discussion is the fact that it's been done to so many people for so long, it's not the most discussed issue because it's involved with SEX which until the last few decades was considered unspeakable, and because it tramps on people's religious sensibilities.
NONE of these are good reasons to defend the legality of it.
So we wake up!!!! Better late then never.
Parent's should not have the excuse of religion to commit this insult to normal body integrity. PERIOD. I can't understand how anyone can argue this. They can always get it done when they are older. By their OWN choice.

