My Father died yesterday
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My Father died yesterday
I came home for the weekend to see my dad since my mom was out of town on a business vacation. He had not been answering the phone all day and I was very concerned over what might be going on. My dad loves to hike in Glacier Park and I was concerned he had gone into the park without taking his cell phone and something bad had happened.
I get home at 7:50pm to find my dad laying in bed. He was very cold, and stiff....
I called 911. While waiting for the paramedics to arrive my mom called because she had been expecting me to call when I got home. I broke the news to her over the phone.
The coroner estimates that my father died some time around 2am early Friday morning. I was the first person to find my father, at 7:50pm Friday night.
My Father is survived by his Brother, Wife, Son (me), and Daughter. He has three beautiful grand-kids thanks to my sister.
My father was 74 years old. He has been married to my mother for 30 years (they celebrated their 30th anniversary this year and just relived their honeymoon for fucks sake!!!!!!!!) My sister is 42 years old from my dads first marriage and I am 29 years old.
My mother is flying back home as quickly as she can. She didn't take the news very well over the phone. I called some of her friends that were near where she worked and one of them is going to fly with her all the way back here to Montana.
So here I am sitting in my parents home, alone. I am going to go crawl into a ball in the corner. I feel like shit right now. And now I just got off another phone call with a family friend. I hope my family from over the mountains gets here soon. I can't take much more of this. Fuck, another phone call. I don't know how many more of those I can handle alone.
I get home at 7:50pm to find my dad laying in bed. He was very cold, and stiff....
I called 911. While waiting for the paramedics to arrive my mom called because she had been expecting me to call when I got home. I broke the news to her over the phone.
The coroner estimates that my father died some time around 2am early Friday morning. I was the first person to find my father, at 7:50pm Friday night.
My Father is survived by his Brother, Wife, Son (me), and Daughter. He has three beautiful grand-kids thanks to my sister.
My father was 74 years old. He has been married to my mother for 30 years (they celebrated their 30th anniversary this year and just relived their honeymoon for fucks sake!!!!!!!!) My sister is 42 years old from my dads first marriage and I am 29 years old.
My mother is flying back home as quickly as she can. She didn't take the news very well over the phone. I called some of her friends that were near where she worked and one of them is going to fly with her all the way back here to Montana.
So here I am sitting in my parents home, alone. I am going to go crawl into a ball in the corner. I feel like shit right now. And now I just got off another phone call with a family friend. I hope my family from over the mountains gets here soon. I can't take much more of this. Fuck, another phone call. I don't know how many more of those I can handle alone.
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My deepest condolences.
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That's terrible, Alyeska...I hope the rest of your family gets there soon, things like that are even harder than they already are when you're isolated.
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My sincere condolences. Sorry for you man...
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I am most sorry for your loss. To lose one's parent must be a terrible burden.
Mourn his passing, but cherish the memories when you were together and had a good time. I'm sure your father would have liked you to do so. And keep your friends and your family close to you: they can help you with your sorrow and they can also need some help.
Once again, my condolences.
Mourn his passing, but cherish the memories when you were together and had a good time. I'm sure your father would have liked you to do so. And keep your friends and your family close to you: they can help you with your sorrow and they can also need some help.
Once again, my condolences.
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My deepest condolences, Alyeska. Can't imagine what you're going through. I'm sorry for your loss.
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I'm very sad to hear this Alyeska and I am truly sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences.
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I'm very sorry to hear that, Alyeska. My deepest condolences
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My condolences. My sympathy for also being the one to make the discovery and field all the phone calls. It is a terrible burden, but you will get through this.
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Already said so over MSN, but I'll say it again Alyeska; my deepest condolences and best wishes to you and your family.
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My deepest condolences.
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I'm very sorry. I wish there was something that could be done.
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Very sorry to hear that.
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It's sad that you had to be the one who found him, but from the sound of things, you've remained composed enough to be helpful to others (calling your mother's friends to make sure she wouldn't be alone on the flight). I've haven't yet lost a parent, so I'm left only able to imagine what you're going through.
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You have my condolences, Alyeska. My mother died 6 years ago, and while i was way younger than you, it propably never gets any easier. It was an equally sudden death (though she lied in a come for about a week), which made it even harder.
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As via ICQ and on SB, I give you my condolences Aly. I know the pain all too well.
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You have my deepest condolences Alyeska.
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Sorry to hear that, Aly. My deepest condolences.
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I'm sorry to hear that.
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I lost a grandfather a few weeks back, so I understand what you're going through. You have me sympathies. Let me know if you need anything.
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I'm sorry to hear of your loss Alyeska. My condolences on your loss and the way you had to discover this way.
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You have my condolences. Having recently had to break the news of a death of a friend to my other friends, I know how hard that burden can be, and understand it would be even more difficult for family and you have my sincerest sympathy.
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My most sincere condolences to you and your family, Alyeska.
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I'm very, very sorry, Alyeska. My condolences.