We'd never get to discussing my position rather than pushing away all the misunderstandings of it...
Ghost Rider wrote:Thus in short of all that...you are saying objectively it would be better to keep the mother alive, because as a breeder she would be able to produce more babies.
You got it.
The point they are making is that completely ignores the mother and is essentially placing you above her wishes, but then adding that you are obviously in a more coherent state that you can make the what you see the more clear and logical choice even though you are only in the role of an relayer of wishes.
Actually, I'm the Executor of her Wishes. Which is why I want to execute her
real wishes.
The mother made a request. Your job, everything except your own personal motivation hinges on you carrying out those wishes. Thus all this has been basically you going "Well, if it was solely up to me I would..."
It is not my personal motivation. What personal motivation? What do I get from this? Rightly or wrongly, I'm
trying to do what's right, and had this been a real scenario, I'm trying to do what's right at great risk to my career. Do you think I get orgies from killing nearly "ready" babies or stepping on people's rights?
Unless you happen to agree with my one of my older definitions for selfish, in which virtually everything you do can be expressed as something of self-interest, and thus everyone is selfish. In this case, my only personal motivation would be that feeling that I did the best possible, which will be quite counterbalanced by the guilt that always comes when you've made a choice in these circumstances - so it isn't even like overall I'd want that "did the best possible" feeling.
But that's the point, the position you are put in, would mean that if you would disregard her wishes, you lose everything in a real world scenario.
And you don't think that illogical?
Which is why I agreed in a real life scenario, where the woman would sue me, I probably won't. IMO, however, this is an ethical debate. Ethics is not law nor about engineering feasibilities. When I discuss ethics of Eugenics, I tend not to lay aside realistic problems like the potential "hidden costs" of genetic engineering and imperfections in our current technique. So when I discuss this, I lay aside my legal issue.
Besides, if I didn't do something merely because I'm afraid of being sued, it just means I was a selfish funk rather than trying to do the moral thing, right?
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Innerbrat wrote:If you want to play "OMFG! I've suffered more thn U!", then we can. I guarantee you I have a better idea of what it's like to be in her position than you do. However, I don't think that's necessary, do you?
I have no intention of playing that game. Just that it is one thing to say that you feel that a highly emotional state is not serious enough in your eyes to rate a grade of incompetence. It is quite another to assert that emotions won't degrade your ability to think at all.
You are in no position to decide whether or not it is, so you're going to have to take it on faith that it is.
So even though someone is obviously in a state of putty and quite clearly not playing with a full deck, you will just assume they are.
False analogy. Your leg has nothing to do with saving the life of a baby
and
What are you going to do? Make suicdie illegal?
False dilemma. This has nothing to do with saving the life of a baby.
The point of this kind of thing is to demonstrate times when short-term beliefs fueled by emotions do not turn out to jive with longer-term thinking.
By the way, this decision by the mother, while considered noble, is technically also a suicide. Suicide basically means intentionally ending your own life, for which this of course qualifies.
The part where being emotional must equal incompetence.
No, you made that up to straw. I'm saying that overwhelming emotions are a strong cause for incompetence. If the woman is clearly holding that thing back, her order would be valid. So don't straw.
You have declared that this woman cannot make a decision to be trusted, wihtout providing a shred of evidence towards this,
If you think someone in emotional distress is in prime shape to make decisions that will affect her life, I'd like to see
your evidence.
nor explaining why you as an outsider have any right to force your decision on her.
The entire, generally accepted concept of "implied consent" is an outsider "forcing his decision" (to provide treatment, and where more than one treatment option exists to choose the one he feels best) onto a temporarily incompetent person. So once it is agreed that the person
is currently incompetent, that's the default position of society, and should require no further defense by me.
You have to prove she's insane before you take her rights away
So despite the fact that she's clearly putty (crying out of control, words barely coherent...), you'd still assume she's sane? Really, there are times when a person is clearly out of it.