
It's been said in several EU books that the Jedi during the Old Republic only accepted really young children, as in babies or toddlers. Are the Jedi kidnapping babies and turning them into brainwashed state police? Technically, they can't do it without the parents' permission, but that's slipped by them before. A Jedi's life is difficult, as we've seen many times, and the Jedi of the Old Order were very flawed. These children will not be allowed to form attachments to anything, and their whole life is about service: service to the Force, service to the greater good, service to justice, service to authority, service to the Republic - you get the idea. But would the children ultimately be better off with their parents than with the children? With their parents, they would form attachments and turn out good or evil either way, depending on their own beliefs, choices, and how they were raised. Then there is the possibility that some rogue Jedi or Sith would take the child and raise him or her as their own apprentice, which is more than likely how Palpatine became a Sith Lord.
Another point is that it's implied heavily (but nowhere near as strongly as in Knights of the Old Republic 2: The Sith Lords or Dark Lord: The Rise of Darth Vader) that being a Jedi is not as important as being a human being, and the Jedi we've seen are more like emotionless droids who fear even the slightest emotion for fear that it will lead to the dark side. I don't care what Mace Windu says, the Jedi were aggressive soldiers dedicated to keeping the peace through any means necessary, and in that aspect, it's no different than movies like Soldier or Halo, where children are taken away from their parents and trained to kill or destroy.
In the Revenge of the Sith novelization, Palpatine outright states that the Jedi choose their candidates at such a young age because their "victims" will be more receptive to their teachings and grow up not to question the great wisdom or the Council or the rule of law, like some sort of advanced indoctrination program, and I have to admit, even though I know most of what Palpatine says are lies, I found what he said to actually be making sense and I believed him in spite of myself. So, I guess I've said all I can say on this subject. I'll leave it up to the rest of you to carry on. Do the Jedi brainwash young children, or are their actions justified?
What do you think? XD