At first I thought the lady was joking, but then I realized that she was stone-serious and really thought that the only way to make "them Mexicans" feel welcome at a Christmas party was to serve beans and rice . It shocked me to see someone doing something so blatantly offensive when they had the exact opposite intentions. I asked several of my friends of Mexican heritage what they thought and they laughed their asses off. As one said "Dude, it's 'Christmas in Bethlehem' not 'Christmas in Bethlehem con frijoles"Mrs. K: Hi there, how's it going?
Church Lady: Well, I'm concerned about this party.
Mrs. K: Why? What's wrong?
Church Lady: Well, I don't think it's very inclusive of all our congregation.
Mrs. K: What do you mean?
Church Lady: Well (she really started almost ever sentence with 'well'), it's them mexicans. (we have about 20 Spanish-speaking congregants)
Mrs. K: Do you think we should have Spanish language translations for the songs?
Church Lady: Well, no. That's not what I meant.
Mrs. K: Invitations in Spanish?
Church Lady: Well, no.
Mrs. K: Then what?
Church Lady: Well, it's the food. I know you're serving all that Ay-rab food (we're doing Mediterranean style fare), and I don't think they'll like it.
Mrs. K: What do you mean?
Church Lady: Well, we want 'em to feel welcome, so I think we should serve 'em beans or something.
Mrs. K: You know, we're in America and we eat all kinds of different food. They don't only eat Mexican food.
Church Lady: Well, I don't know. I've never seen Mexicans serve food that wasn't Mexican. I just don't want to offend.
Mrs. K: I don't think our menu of food from the holy land is going to offend anyone, but I'll make sure that everyone feels welcome.
Church Lady: Well, I just thought I should say something.
Anyone else come across stuff like this?