Lord Revan wrote:my main is a ilevel 850 mage so I am "under leveled" DPS and I've not really that many issues, oh and I got 850 after 7.1 and had done the Arcway and Court of Stars several times before that hell I did the Kara attunement mythics twice (because I forgot I didn't need to do that individually for each character).
No offense man, but you're a Fire Mage. Literally the top-tier DPS this expansion whose sole weakness is having merely "above-average" AOE DPS (last I checked). I'm leaning more towards Broomstick's post because I know she has at least one Ele shaman, though I don't know what (if anything) she mains.
I'm not saying, in any way, you don't pull your weight or get shit done. But I recall being declined for many Flex 3s in Pandas on a Frost DK (ilvl 565 at the time IIRC) because "melee is cancer in wing 3," even though I murder-rolled DPS in the groups I got into. All because I needed a non-LFR version of Thok's Tailtip and we were past him on Normal in my raid group. I can't think of a single time anyone would decline whatever Mage spec is currently murdering the DPS list for any reason other than "we already have 5 Mages."
The few times I've bothered to try and pug, I got back two messages: "can you go DPS?" when applying to a group as a Demon Hunter Tank. They were willing to take me as my shitty off-spec and wait for a "better" tank. I think I was 845 at the time. The other, which I can't believe they responded at all, was if my Unholy spec was up to par. They wanted me to burn trash as Frost, but wanted Unholy for the bosses. Probably for the best I declined THEM.
Yea, I agree: the attitude of pugs is above and beyond what I'm used to as most people in the past wouldn't have even responded and these people were quite pleasant to talk with, but this might be due to how small the community has become, at least on Naz.
That said, Rob's been rejected (in past expansions, mind you) because he wouldn't switch from Arcane. He doesn't like Fire or Frost and he's been accused of wanting a carry because he won't switch. Multiple people I used to run with, who have now quit but hang around on b.net, have stated that since their guilds have fallen apart, pugging had become tiresome. Also of note: the WoW forums and other forums I troll for info concerning WoW.
I don't care if certain difficulties are gated behind pugs/guilds/groups of friends. But Blizzard set a precedence of not gating
content behind these things, only gating higher difficulties. They've gone back on this system they've had since the end of Cata. I dealt with this back in MoP, but I had the time to deal with it. I could take an hour of declines (or put my own group together) and THEN do actual content for 2-3 hours. Hell, this lead to me being sucked into and becoming the go-to-DPS guy in a guild that got me my Garrosh kill. But, I don't have that uninterrupted time to devote anymore and it wouldn't be worth it even if I did.
I'm going to grant that I could just be racked off because my partner in crime for tanking back in Pandas begged me to level my Pally and he'd get me a raid spot but he wouldn't take my DH main because the raid didn't think it could tank EN Normal. I know DHs aren't in the best spot, but are you fucking serious?
tl;dr: Blizzard refusing to put Mythic into LFD (or making heroic versions that count for quest credit) and letting people without the time to devote hours to a game and leave if they have to without dicking the other 4 players over is a piss-poor design decision. Further, giving these people nothing else to do but one LFR meat-grinder run a week and a few more WQs means people are mad. The casual playerbase that made WoW into the monolith it was are being forgotten and it's going to continue to negatively affect the game.
If you aren't having problems, that's good. I am/was. So were/are others I run with except my geared Pally healer buddy. If I leveled and geared my, let's say.... Pally Tank to my DH ilvl: instant invites. I bet money on it. But DH Tank? Frost DK? Hell, DK at all since Blood is in the shitter and Unholy is already falling behind again because Blizzard is like "lol, what's math?"? Not worth it. I'm not maining a spec I don't enjoy just to see more Quality™ Blizzard writing.
Put that shit in LFD, let them see my DH tank shit. They roll their eyes, I don't die, dungeon cleared, all is happy. We wipe too much, people leave, boo hoo, tears all around. It works for FFXIV (and early cata) and that game is a shitton harder than WoW.