Ignoring Jub's usual debate by ad hominem and libel for the moment, I guess I should explain what I like about the show. Mainly:
1- I like Jim Parsons as an actor. I suspect this is half the reasons most people like the show.
2- Despite the mockery of his annoying personality traits (obsessive, controlling, arrogant, nitpicky) Sheldon actually turns out to be right a surprising amount of the time, and surprisingly competent. Penny too. I've long felt that if she were born in a different time and place instead of late 20th. Century America, she could turn into a certified action hero.*
3- They do include a lot of interesting references to things, including some I first heard about through this show. Do they count as proper nerd humour? Don't know, don't really care.
4- I like that they never really gave into the temptation (despite massive fan pressure) to ship Sheldon/Penny, but kept their most popular female/male characters in a platonic relationship. There's a huge tendency to think that any male and female character who have an emotional attachment or chemistry together must end up fucking, and its always nice to see that subverted. Plus, I have at least a little respect for any writer who knows when to tell the most vocal parts of the fan base to go fuck themselves.
5- On that note, Kaley Cuoco and Jim Parsons, and their characters, have genuinely wonderful on-screen chemistry, at least in my opinion.
6- I like the moments when they do genuinely try to show respect for nerds (and yes, there are some, even though they're usually sandwiched between a bunch of crap). Hell, I'll link two of my favorites here:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a14v7JrWOHU
Its brief, but Sheldon calling out Penny's hypocrisy here was really quite satisfying.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UDuk0-SXmsM
And this one. Its at the end of one of the most painfully nasty episodes of the series, where the male leads go on a trip to a convention and spend the whole episode basically being shit on by people/the world for being nerds.** But at the end they come home and find their girlfriends sitting and arguing over comic book minutia. You can interpret it various ways, but to me I took it as an acknowledgement that "Yeah, this stuff is actually pretty engaging to "normal" people too if they give it a chance."
6- Penny is hot. And some other characters, but mostly Penny. I fully admit that that's probably not a good reason to like the show, but I'd be lying if I didn't include it.
7- I like that this show is the reason that Bob Newhart now has a (ridiculously overdue) Emmy.
The good doesn't excuse the bad, it doesn't erase it, but there was enough there, for me, that I kept giving the show another chance.
*I've actually toyed with crossing over TBBT with one of several different SF franchises. If I ever do, though, I probably won't post it here given the response to this thread. Instead, I'll probably just save it for my Fanfiction.net account.
**That said, again, anyone who equates mockery of "nerds" to the history of racism against black people is being an entitled racist with no sense of perspective.
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