Sky Captain wrote:So that means theoretically if North Korea strikes first and blows up few US military bases in East Asia or attacks Hawaii with nuclear weapons there is a real chance that situation could quickly go to hell instead of ending just with limited US retaliatory nuclear strike against North Korea.
The predictable US nuclear attack on North Korea will be a fairly close approximation of things "going to Hell" in any case, because we'd be looking at hundreds of thousands or millions of casualties all in one go.
If you meant to ask "will nuclear third parties become involved?" Dunno. Might depend on what plans are in place. For example, I don't know if it's feasible for the US to call up China and reach some kind of agreement with them before launching on North Korea; they would understandably not be able to tell whether missiles had been fired at them or at the Norks.
With North Korea, they have nukes but not 
many nukes, so they don't have a full-scale strategic deterrent. We might have a bit more flexibility in being able to take time to make a few phone calls to Beijing and Moscow to work something out before launching against North Korea. We would not have that flexibility in dealing with China or Moscow, because both of them can put large numbers of warheads in the air and due to hit us in about half an hour. That half hour interval limits our options.
Stuart wrote:You see, back in the day, everybody involved was quite clear that nobody actually wanted a nuclear war.  What scared everybody was one would happen by accident.  This is usually interpreted to mean a technical failure but that isn't quite the case (although, the Mighty God Mota knows, there were enough of those).
...Was that a 
Sixth Column reference?
Sky Captain wrote:Would a first strike be really that effective in destroying enemy retaliatory capability? I have always thought that early warning radars and space based IR sensors are meant to prevent that from happening. Suppose nation A launches first strike against nation B. Nation B detects missile launches and launches its own missiles on counterattack before enemy missiles hit and destroys their missiles on the ground resulting in MAD.
Well, the point of the exercise is that a first strike 
would be effective against enemy retaliatory capability 
if they don't launch before your first strike hits. Which is why they launch against your first strike, and why you 
must assume that they'd do so, and why they should (hopefully) assume that you will assume that they'd do so... net result, in theory, being that nobody even seriously considers launching that first strike.
Suppose a Tunguska event took place during Cuban missile crisis when everybody had finger on the trigger. What is the chance that this would cause full scale nuclear exchange?
Hmm. What I'd love to know is: how exactly would we know that except by examining several dozen parallel-universe Earths where the impact happened to find out?
Stuart wrote:As a strategy it has plusses and minusses. The TBOverse stories are built around a world in which the strategy you describe was established, continued and used by the USA.  The policy statement used is "The United States does not fight wars.  It simply destroys its opponent". That's the first and only option, there is no other response level and the later stories highlight the problems that causes.  The advantages as well; bereft of tactical, non-nuclear forces, the US defense expenditure is much less than it is in OTL and that translates to a better-off economy.  But, the defense force is strategic-only.
If I might try to unpack the consequences of that, and please correct me if I'm mistaken, having not read the books:
The TBO US, as you say, has effectively no strategic options between "do nothing" and "reduce enemy to radioactive parking lots surrounded by Iron Age refugee communities." The problem being that this doesn't leave you with good options for coercing an opponent you aren't willing to destroy- I imagine that it would have been difficult for the TBO US to pull off something equivalent to the 1989 invasion of Panama in an attempt to unseat Noriega after he became dangerously problematic for us. Or to intervene in a humanitarian crisis, as we did several times during the Clinton years (Haiti, Somalia, and Bosnia come to mind). 
Because in a situation like that, we can't threaten to destroy the country outright; as Heinlein memorably put it it would be "like spanking a baby with an ax." We can't threaten to obliterate Panama to unseat Noriega- it might work, but what do we do if it doesn't work? Nuking Panama hurts us more than leaving Noriega in place would. Likewise, if Somali warlords are harassing humanitarian supply convoys, we can't very well nuke Somalia to get them to leave the convoys alone, for obvious reasons.
Even ignoring cases where the goal is regime change or humanitarian intervention, a nuclear strike is a very bad response to a domestic terrorist threat (which hasn't been a huge problem for the US, but could be for another nuclear power). Or, in some circumstances, to a 
foreign terrorist threat: nuking Pakistan to get at Al Qaeda is a great way to draw a nuclear response from the Pakistani government, even though the government is not an ally of Al Qaeda.
The practical upshot being that while this makes fighting foreign wars against an opponent no one will miss (like Nazi Germany) very cheap, it makes fighting wars to achieve limited objectives impractical, especially when the goal is to change conditions on the same territory you're fighting over.